Most of you might have heard or read this quote “The reason why you take back those who have hurt you is because you still want them in your life”, and I believe that this is 200% true. With the number of times I have endured, forgiven and let pass the hurt that a number of people have done towards me, just because I still want them to be part of my life, is really because I’m just waiting for the time when I will no longer hold any emotions towards that person, that weather she’d/ he’d be there, it simply wouldn’t matter. No more nostalgia, no more hate not even empathy.
That’s just who I am. My motto in life would probably be love til it hurts no more. As for me, I’m just waiting, waiting for the time when it wouldn’t even matter anymore (obviously, now is not the time since I bother blogging about it) and I believe that it will come. I’ve been in this road before, several times actually, and I always found new people who’d make me realize that what happened was really for the best, no matter how difficult the process of getting there is.
You just don’t keep “friends” who you’d call countless times in the wee hours in the morning but never answer or call back, even with a simple text. The simplest things they cannot do, do you expect them to do so much more for you? So don’t. Don’t waste your time on people like that, especially when they call you their “friend”.
- Posted on October 31 2012 at 12:20 AM with 3 notes
- Tagged #personal